I'm 40+ and married with kids.
I'm not sure why this is the case but when I see ladies in their short shorts, leggings and tight jeans I feel the urge to wear the same outfit.
That is what led me to my crossdressing fetish.
It's as if I have to prove in public that ladies are not the only ones who would look sexy in those outfits.
I ride public transport in booty shorts that exposed half of my ass cheeks.
I get stares from both guys and girls but I enjoy it more when guys notice and openly admire me.
When I notice guys staring at me I pull my shorts higher to make them shorter and arch my back.
