Ok, so last week Monday my husband came with this bomb to me: He was accused of taking a photo of a female co-worker's butt, among other transgressions.
The company order him to avoid any contact with co-workers and to not present himself to the office until the business was clarified.
For this, my husband agreed that he had taken a photo of this colleague, but that it was her full back (not focus on her butt), but that he was not aware of any other transgression.
He is destroyed and angry at himself and to the company and of course has been rough.
Today he will hear the final decision that the company has made, without hearing anything that he had to say for himself.
We are preparing for the worst.
I told him that he had made a mistake, but that he was not a bad person (he was really hunted by this thought).
I honestly think that his sexual boundaries are broader than other people, but I do not justify the photo.
or he showing the photo to another male co-worker (who I believe was the snitch).
Now we are preparing for the worst…..
he ending up jobless and sued.
The thing is that I have been totally supportive of him, but I also need to shout how I feel!
I don't want to tell anybody because it will make him feel worse, but I am really stressed and desperate myself.
We had plans to finally buy a house this year, which I guess will go straight through the drainage.
I am in this country on a marriage permit…
on which he is my sponsor. But what if the sponsor ends up jobless?
Apparently, there is no any URGENT measure to take immediately, but it is still stressful.
I know that getting another job will be hard.
I keep imaging him on an interview with them asking him: Why did you end relations with your previous employer?
Gosh, it is going to be hard.
I can't imagine myself or him telling our parents that he doesn't have a job anymore.
It is going to be so shameful!
I feel like I have to work extra hard now because my contract is temporary, and have to really ensure that it will be renewed and my salary raised.
And what is most….
we are trying to get pregnant, but is this really a situation to bring a kid to the world?
It looks like he really fucked up our beautiful plans for this year, and inside me, I really want to let him know that he is the one to blame, but I don't want to hurt him, and I want to be by his side.
I love him.
At this time, he is waiting for the decision appointment, and I'm so shaky and it is really hard to focus.
I hope everything works out because I keep telling him that everything will.
