My wife has no interest in sex due to weight gain. She does not feel pretty, so she does not want sex. We have been married 11 years and have only had sex 3 times this year. The last bj I got was over 7 yrs ago, she says oral sex makes her feel dirty, but she likes it when I go down on her.
We do not believe in divorce, and I will never cheat on her (which she knows and is part of the reason I don’t think she cares if I am satisfied sexually as she knows I am not leaving), but I feel completely isolated in my marriage.