Once I was being intimate with a guy that was 6 years younger than me. We had a casual hook arrangement that due to circumstances took place mostly in my car. Something a little desperate and needed on both our parts to pretend normal stress of life wasn’t there.
I started regretting our little tryst and would be too in my head to enjoy our little rendezvous. Once while we were preparing to connect he tried to mansplain why I wasn’t as ready for him as I used to be. Attempting to tell me that my age was stopping me from getting…
I really wanted to tell him that he just wasn’t doing it for me anymore but kept my mouth closed on the topic. I just wasn’t into it anymore and it was adding to my everyday stress to maintain the situationship.