I started having a sexual relationship with my sister when I was 8 and she was 12, it continued until she was in her 20s and met the man she was to marry. I mention this because I don’t in any way feel used, in fact I feel lucky to start having sex so early and easily.
I learned a lot about women during that period that has served me well in my relationships. I am in my 40s now and hold no ill will against her, I gave her a tight hug recently, looked her in the eyes and said, “thank you”. I wanted her to know she didn’t hurt me and I appreciate everything she did for me.
Our last sexual act was her blowing me and until I came, she did that a lot actually, just blow me not expecting or letting me do anything for her.
I sympathize with the people whose experience was negative but I have always known that my sister loved me and I never once felt used or taken advantage of.
