Last year, I had a sexual encounter with a man from Great Falls, Montana, whose wife was in the end stages of cancer. His name was Gregg, and I met him at a local bar. We struck up a friendly conversation, and I ended up letting him take me to a nearby hotel for sex. During our time together, he told me about his wife’s condition, and I felt so ashamed.
You may have an individual who wants deeper intimacy, but for whatever attachment reasons, they may be afraid,” explains Aaron. He assured me that his wife was cool with it and that they had a 'don’t ask don’t tell' relationship.