I spent my work life as a secretary, retired when I turned sixty two last year.
My late husband never knew how many affairs I had at work. I would come home after sometimes having sex two or three times during the day, was not always everything each time, I felt guilty and would give him a blow job or whatever he wanted to do, I even told him I liked being spanked so he was punishing me without even knowing it. How screwed up is that?