I turned 30 this year, I am in an extramarital relationship with a man, have been since I was 24.
I'm his girlfriend, but his wife says I'm his mistress. I want a child now.
She, his wife, is supportive of me. The Pandemic really changed her mind on everything.
For the months we were locked down I lived with them, and I walked down the hall with my pillow to get in bed with them.
I'm ready, my head is clear, I want a child.
I know I can be a good mother and she supports me 100%.
I don't think it is a surprise to him, he just feels he is a little old to start over again.