My wife and I hired an unlicensed contractor (Dustin) to do some work on a home we were fixing up.
He was much younger, had a few brushes with the law.
Stereotypical dirty white boy/trailer trash guy, younger than me and much more muscular.
At first things were fine, but quickly realized he had a serious alcohol (and probably drug) problem.
He began demanding money up front, then did lousy work or no work at all.
We had no contract so I had no legal recourse.
When I tried to press the issue he basically laughed in my face and told me to fuck off.
The more confrontational he became, the more afraid of him I became.
I let him take our money and humiliate me in front of my wife, and she called me out on it.
We eventually sold the property, and since then my wife has said she started having sexual fantasies about Dustin and sometimes dreams that he is fucking her.
Since then I started having difficulty getting hard, and sometimes jerk off thinking about him beating the shit out of me.