When I was young I met and married a young woman from another country. We had two children. I was transferred and she wasn’t and didn’t want to move and be away from her parents.
Several years later I met a young woman and married her and with her I have three children. I have always sent my other country wife money for her and the children, and never requested that she be shamed by being a divorced woman. I have also never told my US wife that I have a wife in another country.