My mom gave me the best advice when I got married. She told me the way to a mans heart is through his dick. Mom never talked like that to me before. I was shocked and what she said next floored me, made me feel very uncomfortable and made me want to throw up and run out. But I am so grateful for what she said.
She said men need you to prove you love and respect them. They need to be validated and made to feel masculine. They need to get those things sucked often. She then said for the last 22 years she had taken care of this for my dad at least three times a week! The thought of mom doing this was bad enough but the thought of my daddy getting this done was almost too much.
However I have been doing this for my husband a few times a week no matter what else comes up in life and we have been married ten years with three children. So many of my friends had their husband cheat on them and most of them bragged they didn’t have to do this after getting married.
Well I doubt if my husband will cheat as he is always drained. Of course there is sex too but this is different. Sex is for the both of you, this is just for him. I don’t always want to and have to force myself sometimes but always feel needed afterwards.
