I went down on my son when he was a teenager. He was a freshman and had just broken up with this girl who had dropped him for this other boy, it tore him up and I was worried about him. His personality changed and he was moping around not wanting to do anything or go anyplace.
I was in his room one day and found his porn stash, I didn’t move anything or say anything to him because he was in such a fragile state. One day it was just him and me in the house, he was in his room playing a video game. I asked how he was doing and he said okay and I asked if I could ask him some personal questions and he said yes. I asked him if he had sex with the girl he broke up with and he said no, I asked him if he had tried and he said yes but she didn’t let him but that he had let the boy she got with.
I told him, I want to give you a sexual experience but only if you are okay with it and only if you can keep it between us. He agreed and I went down on him letting him cum in mouth. We continued that roughly once a month until he was just finishing his junior year and found a regular gf.
This was many years ago and my son is doing great mentally physically and financially. I believe to this day that I made the right choice, maybe it wasn’t the best choice for everybody’s son but it appears it was the best choice for mine. We have a wonderful relationship even now. I don’t think his father ever knew but I really don’t think he would have tried to stop me even if he did, he was every bit as worried about our son as I was.
