Lustful Object

I should not lust after ladies cause they want to be friends, I should love them in the light of god and not keep thinking about females for they are in gods light, I need to treat females like sisters and not treat them like lustful object I keep thinking about cause they want to be friends in the real manner with out lust. I want to get along with ladies with out lust. For I AM A fool if I don’t I ain’t a slave to lust but put lust under the feet to squash.