Later in life discovery. I’m in my sixties. I did some consulting with a company. I met a man there and we became lunch friends. He invited me to watch the Superbowl with some friends. There five friends, all men in our age group.
During half time some hamburgers and hot dogs on the grill. I look for a bathroom and the guest bathroom was occupied, do I hot an invite to the master bathroom. There were several color pictures, of nude men in various poses. In the bathroom, over the toilette a large painting of a penis. When I walked out my work friend asked me if I had any questions.
I chose not to comment. The other guys were in conversation, someone put a CD in the player, men having sex. The guys watched, the Superbowl was boring. The interest in the porn video was far more exciting. My friend put his arm on my shoulder. “Surprised?”
That party was the first time I engaged in man sex. It was mostly touching, humping and penetration. I was offered to feel the pain, which I ignored. Then he convinced me to try it. The party displaced the Superbowl.
It’s been a while, I participate when invited. It has brought a new perspective.
