My ex and I were married for seventeen years before she demanded a divorce. A few months before the divorce, I convinced her to try to get into my place of work and even recommended her to my boss. In my mind, I thought it would improve our financial situation (and it could have). My ex arrived and I thought things were going good.
A few months later she went away for training and came back a completely different person. Two weeks upon her return, she demanded a divorce. Her plan was to take the kids away from me and leave me with nothing. Unfortunately for her I found out a few things. While she was at training she slept with several men in just the three weeks that she was there. One within three days, another guy a day after, and three guys in one night (they gangbanged her…she was a willing participant). There were supposedly others, but it was unconfirmed and those I have proof of. I learned all of this from the first guy who just so happened to work with us. With the information he provided, I was able to get the evidence I needed to technically blackmail her.
After the divorce, she wound up trying to get me fired. She filed thirty complaints on me (all of which were shot down with evidence). Later on she fell in love with an inmate, which got her fired. I later found out that she had slept with almost half the male staff members at our place of work. All in an attempt to make me go crazy, so that I’d do something stupid. I confirmed this through diaries she left behind at a house she kicked me out of and soon abandoned.
In the end, I wound up still maintaining my job, I have a better life now than I ever thought I’d have. She turned my oldest children against me (but I’m not too worried, as some of her family has learned how she is and they will too). I also learned from her sister that she’s slept with two of her nephews (both over twenty now). If she’s reading this, I wish her well. Oh…and I’ve banged several of her former friends.