I recently broke off the relationship I had with my lover because I am married and started to feel very guilty. I want to work on my marriage and rededicate my loyalty to my husband in spite of what we have been through over the years. Fact is: I love my husband and I have strong feelings for my lover too. My lover is holding out hope that things will work out with us. It's a temptation that I am struggling to overcome--the urge to call him up to sneak away to be with him when things are going south with my husband and I. In many ways, I am glad I met my lover because he has loved me in so many ways that my husband has not. In other ways, I deeply regret being unfaithful because I was raised better than that. I am trying to 'shake' these feelings I have about my lover and keep the memories in the past. I'm sorry.
I am in a similar situation - I have been having a relationship with someone at work and i just cant seem to stop it - we both know its wrong - he has a baby with his girlfriends who he is due to marry - i wont leave my husband but we cant stop it - havent felt anything like this before - i have no self control no matter what the risk - we've tried to stop it five times and we always end up back at square one - we're trying to be good again but i dont know how long it will last - it's eating me up inside, i dont know how i will be able to see him get married to his girlfriend
Reply by:Lucy (Female) On: 2011-05-23 12:26:48
How are you ?
So far so good.
Are U happy with the present situation ? If not, U have to BE with 1 only. Choices are either U get divorce and stay with your BF or totally forget the BF. It should take only MINUTE to do so. Although U R involved in him just TELL him NOT TO BE IN TOUCH and no more contacts. that's all.
Any way, giving advice / suggestion is always easy than follow it. hahahahah
have a nice time,