I was in an 11.5 year relationship. I met a man who seemed to be offering everything that was missing in my relationship. I fell in love with him and ended the long term relationship. I thought we would have the relationship that I needed and hurt my partner deeply. Now the other guy had disappeared from my life. He's moved onto other relationships and hardly acknowledges that I'm alive. My ex is bitter and sad and my actions are the cause of it all. I am sorry for the pain I've caused him and for being such a fool as to believe what the other guy was telling me.